Pregnant as a Solo Mum

Support for every stage of pregnancy as a solo mum

You’re pregnant - and everything is about to change

If you’re here, you’re pregnant — and stepping into a new chapter you chose with intention.

After the planning, waiting, and hoping, this stage can feel exciting, surreal, emotional, grounding, and overwhelming all at once.

Pregnancy as a solo mum isn’t just about growing a baby, it’s about stepping into a future you chose — intentionally, thoughtfully, and on your own terms.

This stage isn’t about rushing ahead or needing to feel a certain way.
It’s about being supported as you find your footing.

What this stage can really feel like

Pregnancy brings hormones, physical changes, and a shift in identity — for everyone.

As a solo mum, it can also bring moments of reflection you didn’t expect.

  • You might feel deeply proud one minute, and quietly vulnerable the next.

  • You might feel strong and certain — then suddenly aware of the enormity of what you’re doing.

  • You might feel joy alongside grief for the version of pregnancy or family you once imagined.

All of that belongs here.

  • All of it belongs here.

  • It can all exist alongside certainty.

  • It means you’re human — and becoming a mother.

This stage doesn’t require constant positivity. It requires steadiness, perspective, and support from people who understand this path.

This is why support matters now

Pregnancy as a solo mum brings decisions and emotions that are easier to hold when they’re shared with people who understand this path. Support at this stage isn’t about being told what to do — it’s about being surrounded by women who know what this feels like, because they’re living it too.

This is the stage where shared experience matters:

  • Talking through how and when to share your news

  • Navigating reactions (supportive, awkward, or unexpected)

  • Preparing emotionally for birth and early motherhood

  • Feeling seen during moments of doubt or overwhelm

  • Being reminded that what you’re feeling is normal — and temporary

Support at this stage isn’t about fixing anything.
It’s about being held while you grow.

How Solo Mum Society supports you at this stage

Pregnancy as a solo mum isn’t meant to be navigated in isolation. Having support from women who understand this exact stage — the decisions, the emotions, the practical realities — can make everything feel more grounded and less overwhelming.

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1. Start here - support for early pregnancy

Expecting Solo - Early Pregnancy Course

Expecting Solo is designed specifically for women who are pregnant and navigating this stage without a partner.

It supports you with:

  • deciding when and how to share your news

  • handling reactions and questions with confidence

  • choosing pregnancy care and support

  • building support around you

  • settling into pregnancy emotionally as a solo mum

It’s a calm, practical course that helps you feel prepared and supported — without overwhelm.

Explore the Expecting Solo course

2. Ongoing support throughout pregnancy

The Bump Membership

Pregnancy can feel very different when you’re doing it solo. The Bump offers connection, shared understanding, and ongoing support from other women who are pregnant or preparing for solo motherhood.

Inside The Bump, you’ll find:

  • community with women at the same stage

  • emotional support through pregnancy milestones

  • space to ask questions and feel understood

You don’t have to hold everything on your own.

Join The Bump Membership

3. Preparing for what comes next

Preparing for Solo Motherhood - Birth & Early Parenting Course

As pregnancy progresses, preparation naturally shifts toward birth and early motherhood.

Preparing for Solo Motherhood supports you with:

  • practical and emotional preparation for birth

  • planning support for the early weeks

  • finances, logistics, and leave

  • stepping confidently into motherhood as a solo parent

It’s designed for later pregnancy — when you’re ready.

Learn about Preparing for Solo Motherhood

Pregnancy often brings new questions about support — especially as you shape this experience in your own way.

4. A practical step you can take now

Free Guide: Choosing a Birth Partner as a Solo Mum

As a solo mum, your birth experience doesn’t default to anyone else’s expectations — you get to choose what support looks like for you.

This free guide helps you:

  • understand your options for birth support

  • think through who feels right to have with you

  • plan for professional and personal support

  • feel confident making choices that suit you, not tradition

It’s a calm, practical starting point as you begin to think about birth — without needing to decide everything at once.

Solo mum holding her baby, symbolising love and empowerment.

A gentle reminder of what you’re building

Many women describe a moment — sometimes at birth, sometimes later — when everything clicks into place. The waiting rooms, the scans, the questions fade, and what remains is a deep knowing: this was the right path for me.

You’ll hold your child and feel the meaning of everything you’ve carried to get here.

You’re creating a family built on intention. You’re modelling courage, autonomy, and self-trust from the very beginning. And one day, your child will know — not because you tell them, but because they feel it — that they were wanted, planned for, and deeply loved.

This path is powerful.
And you are already living it.

You don’t need to have it all figured out

This stage isn’t about having every answer.

It’s about being supported as you move forward — step by step, decision by decision — toward a life you intentionally chose.

Whether your next step is joining the community, enrolling in Expecting Solo, or simply taking a breath and letting this feel real — you’re exactly where you need to be.

You’re becoming a mother.
And you don’t have to do this part alone.

Not sure what comes next?

If you’re moving through pregnancy and starting to think about birth, early parenting, or life beyond the newborn stage, you can explore the full Solo Mum Journey to see what support is available next.