Becoming a “Good Mum”

A guided workbook to uncover the beliefs shaping your solo mum life

Behind every habit, reaction, and moment of overwhelm is a belief — often one you didn’t consciously choose.

As a solo mum, you carry a lot.

And layered over the practical, day-to-day realities of motherhood are quiet, unspoken ideas about what a good mum “should” be.


Ideas absorbed over years.
Ideas shaped by culture, family, and expectation.
Ideas you may not even realise you’re living by.

This guided workbook is an invitation to gently explore those beliefs — so you can understand why motherhood feels the way it does, and begin choosing something more supportive.

This workbook is for you if…

  • you feel capable, but constantly exhausted

  • you put pressure on yourself without knowing where it comes from

  • rest feels uncomfortable or guilt-ridden

  • you’re doing “all the right things” but still feel stuck

  • you want motherhood to feel lighter — without needing to be perfect

You don’t need to fix yourself.
You just need clarity.

What you’ll get

A thoughtfully designed reflection workbook to complete at your own pace, created to help you:

  • reconnect with the mum you want to be

  • notice the invisible rules shaping your choices

  • identify beliefs that no longer serve you

  • begin forming new, more supportive ones

No overwhelm.
No pressure.
Just space to reflect and reconnect.

Why this matters

When you understand the beliefs you’re living by, everything starts to shift:

  • the pressure you place on yourself

  • how you experience motherhood

  • how much room there is for joy, rest and fun

This isn’t about doing more.
It’s about living with more ease.

Ready to begin?

Enter your details and I’ll send you the Becoming a Good Mum workbook - a gentle starting point you can return to whenever things feel heavy.

This workbook is free, private, and yours to keep.

Created by Alisha, founder of Solo Mum Society and host of the No Need for Prince Charming podcast