Children's Book List for Donor-Conceived, Solo Mum By Choice Families

Community recommendations, honest reviews, and everything you need to build a shelf that reflects your child's story.

A woman and young girl sitting on a pink couch reading a colorful children's book titled 'My Perfect Family,' smiling and enjoying the story together.

One of the most powerful things you can do for a donor-conceived child is put books on their shelf that look like them. Not for a special conversation. Not as a teaching moment. Just there — casually, regularly, as if it's the most normal thing in the world.

Because it is.

This free resource covers the best children's books available for donor-conceived solo mum families — with real ratings and reviews from the Solo Mum Society community, details on terminology used, and notes on which books suit which ages.

Including My Perfect Family — written by Alisha, a solo mum by choice, for her own donor-conceived daughter.

Is there a book missing?

Let me know any great books you have found that should be added to this list in the next update.

“You’re never too old, too wacky, too wild, to pick up a book and read to a child”

— Dr Seuss