Community At Every Stage
Connection, clarity and real-world support — from decision to legacy.
Choosing solo motherhood is a decisive act. Living it well requires proximity.
Each stage of this journey brings different responsibilities — donor decisions, fertility treatment, pregnancy planning, early motherhood, financial leadership, long-term vision. What remains constant is the need for community.
Not noise.
Not endless opinion.
Not performative connection.
But thoughtful, stage-specific support from women who understand the weight and intention behind building a family this way.
Solo Mum Society is designed as an ecosystem — so that wherever you are on the journey, you are supported by women who are walking a similar chapter.
Find Your Stage
The Bump
Trying to Conceive & Pregnancy
Private, structured support for women pursuing solo motherhood through donor conception.
The Bump combines fortnightly live connection calls, stage-organised WhatsApp groups, practical resources and member discounts — designed specifically for women navigating sperm donor decisions, artificial insemination (AI), IUI, IVF and pregnancy without a partner.
It is steady, informed support while you build the foundation of your family.
The Nest
Early Motherhood
For solo mums navigating the fourth trimester and the first years of parenting.
The Nest offers connection calls, expert sessions and grounded, real-time conversation around sleep, feeding, recovery, identity, work and the juggle of carrying responsibility alone.
It is a calm, intelligent space — your virtual mothers’ group before a real-life one ever assigns you one.
SMS Membership
Established Solo Mums
Opening soon.
A curated, premium membership for solo mums raising children and thinking beyond the early years — financially, professionally and personally.
Designed for deeper connection, genuine friendships, curated events and long-term expansion alongside motherhood.
Why Stage-Specific Community Matters
This journey evolves.
The conversations you need while researching sperm donor options and Australian legal frameworks are different from the conversations required during IVF cycles. The support needed in the fourth trimester is different again from the conversations around donor identity, schooling, financial growth or expanding your family years later.
A single broad “village” cannot hold all of that well.
That is why each membership exists separately — so that you are surrounded by women at the same stage, facing similar decisions and asking similar questions.
When community is calibrated to your chapter, everything moves more smoothly. Confidence builds faster. Relationships form more naturally. Decisions feel clearer.
Support at this level is not about dependence. It is about having steady, intelligent women around you while you make significant choices.
Beyond The Screen
Community here is not limited to WhatsApp threads.
Throughout the year, Solo Mum Society hosts:
Virtual meetups
In-person gatherings
Curated events
Group travel experiences — including Bali
As the ecosystem grows, members at different stages access different layers of these experiences — some included, others offered at preferred pricing.
The intention is simple: to move connection from digital proximity to real-world sisterhood.
Free Facebook Community
Join over 3,000 solo mums and single women across Australia and New Zealand — from those quietly researching sperm donor options to women raising school-aged children.
The private Facebook community is an open, welcoming space for broad conversation, shared experience and practical questions at every stage of the journey.
It’s where many women first discover Solo Mum Society. Some remain there. Others move into more structured, stage-specific memberships as their needs evolve.
It’s a starting point — and for many, an ongoing touchpoint.
Join today
If you are:
Trying to conceive or pregnant → The Bump
In early motherhood → The Nest
Raising children and thinking bigger → SMS Membership
Or simply exploring the idea of having a baby on your own → Start in the Facebook community or visit the Journey page.
Wherever you begin, you won’t stay there forever. This ecosystem is designed to evolve with you.